ONE WORD CAN CHANGE YOUR WHOLE DAY - LISTEN

My grandmother used to say "Paula, you have two ears and one mouth. Never underestimate how important it is to listen." 

It seems like technology, social media and our ever increasing responsibilities of life give us every excuse not to be present.   Disciplining yourself to truly listen to people and have them do the same for you is not only respectful but could be the exact remedy for giving someone the gift of knowing that they matter and are viewed as important.   

There is nothing worse than being ignored when trying to talk to someone. 

I am guilty of not listening as well and have to remind myself that moments with others are important and meaningful.  Taking time to hear those things that should be heard and not rush through life is a gift and a privilege.  

If only I would "listen" to my own advice, my days would be filled with moments that I may have just let pass me by. 

Take a moment to;

• Turn off your phone.
• Look someone in the eye.
• Give your employee the gift of time and take notice.
• Compliment someone on a job well done
• Close your eyes and listen to what is around you... or enjoy the beauty of silence.
• Allow someone the gift of hearing their story.

..and the list goes on.

WHEN THE SPIRIT LIVES ON

My life has been so blessed for over a decade to have lived and worked out of Moncton, New Brunswick.   The people are some of the friendliest in the world and the quality of life and the vibrancy in the business community are ones that I cherish.

The tragic events of June 4th have resonated far and wide throughout the country.   It has been heartwarming and heartbreaking to watch those I care about suffer and my heart breaks for everyone affected.

Today marks the day where final goodbyes and heartfelt respect will be paid to our brave RCMP and those in law enforcement that work hard to protect our communities.  We take for granted that when we say goodbye to our loved ones int the morning that we will see them when they return home.

Today, I pay my respects not only to the RCMP who protected beautiful Moncton but also the citizens of this city who stand proud, resilient and have taken back their city with hope for a brighter future ahead. #monctonspirit

God Bless all.

Visual Designed by: Jocelyn Saulnier

THE CHARACTER ATTACK

It makes no sense to me how there are people in this world that seem to thrive in life by attacking the character of others. 

I am so thankful for a good upbringing that taught me respect and love for others is a non-negotiable. 

I may not be perfect in many things but I will never stoop to bullying others just so I can feel better about myself.

I have coached many, many people through times like these and we usually arrive at this realization. Control the things you can. At the end of the day, the only thing you really have control over is your own character and how you carry yourself.

Dedicated to those who need a lift today.

Keep on keeping on.